a random thought on love

love is defined in many different ways, it comes in different forms.
the love to God, between parents and their kids, between siblings, between a bunch of very good friends, between lovers, etc.

love is one endless -and sometimes tiresome- journey to be better for each other.

the nature of love, regardless its form, is indeed not selfish. it's about giving wholeheartedly with no expectation in return. love gives you power and strength to do whatever we could to put a smile on our loved one's face. even if that effort costs our own heart.

however, to me, there is no such thing as sacrificing your own  happiness for someone else sake. because in the end, the one whom you are protecting from pain is yourself.

in love, we only have two options, to conquer everything together or to carry the 'losers' tag together.

and here i am, 32 days to my 25th birthday. definitely not a loser, i just have not found my luck in romance yet :)