compromise position

4.5.11

Do men feel intimidated with self-sufficient women?
Is it a sin for a woman to have and to pursue such a big and ambitious dream?
What is so wrong about a single woman who prioritising her work rather than spending time with her boyfriend?

Well, I personally think, men nowadays are feeling more and more threatened with women. Perhaps, they're afraid of losing control over their women!?

Men.. need to assure themselves that they're in charge of everything (or at least most of the things). That's why, they aren't that thrill if their women have better career paths than theirs. The egocentric maniac ones are going to make their women choose between career or relationship. 

In marriage life, I gotta agree that even a very successful woman should know how to put her family first. But the funny thing is, when it happens in a dating relationship ! For the love of God, why would a woman have to abandon her future out of love??

The reason for women to work their asses off are for the future that relationship too. So guys, why don't you let your women chase their own dreams?!

Be supportive, don't be a nagging boyfriend (besides, nagging is a woman's job)
Be understanding when she has no time for you because of the demands of her work
Be thankful with the limited time she has for you, at least she's making the effort to squeeze you into her hectic schedule. It's all about compromising each other's position :)

"A good relationship shouldn't be measured by the amount of time you spend together, instead, it should be measured by the quality of each of your dates."

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