someone for everyone

There's a famous saying: "a successful marriage life requires falling in love many times, always with the same person". Alhamdulillah.. I think it happens to my marriage life.

Yes, it is too early to call mine as the successful one. However, I am so happy, proud and grateful because me and my husband have succeed getting through our first year of marriage. In fact, we love, care and respect each other more than before. It really wasn't an easy year with our businesses slowing down, the never-ending family issues, hence accelerated the tension between us. I gotta give most credits to my husband for his incredible level of patience and understanding.

Nowadays, everytime I wake up, I will look at his sleeping face and I can feel that I am falling in love more and more with him. Thank you for always trying to bring out the best of me. You are unbelievable, even my parents and my family couldn't stand me the way you do. Subhanallah.. Alhamdulillah Ya Allah for marrying me with the right person.

I can't believe I am actually gonna say this but for those who still single, please do get married as soon as possible. Don't wait for the right one, as there is no such thing as the one. Look for someone who is willing to make things right and work out for both of you, look for someone who loves and accepts you unconditionally. Good-looking, romantic, wealth, sexy are just the added bonus however don't let those overshadow your judgement. Don't mess someone's relationship, karma does exist to bite your ass. Trust me, there is someone for everyone :)

With a baby which will due in December this year, I really am the happiest wife!!

prejudice is a crime. do not judge !

I believe that as an ordinary human being, we are all prejudiced to some level. Myself for example, there are times when I judge people from their  their weight, their make-up, their taste in fashion etc. Although I don't normally let out the thoughts still.. I shouldn't even judge them in the first place ! As the victim of bad judgements, I should not let other people experience the same pain.

Shame on you, Nisa !!



Prejudice is a serious crime because someone may eventually suffer psychologically / psychically because of our accusation. Being human should not be our excuses to believe that we are better than someone else, even if you think you are that great.. just keep the shallow thoughts to yourself !

The old proverb of  'never judge a book from its cover' is undeniably true. Yes.. it is always more convenient for me to judge someone / everything from the outside. BUT.. I want to reward myself by spending some time to get to know better, rather than jumping into wrong conclusion. 2014 should be the year of training myself on how to build good assumptions :)



Surat Yunus (10) Ayat 36:
And most of them follow not except assumption. Indeed, assumption avails not against the truth at all. Indeed, Allah is Knowing of what they do.

how wonderful you are

hello, it's me (again) !
with only one post throughout 2013, I will try my best to keep this entry as short as possible to describe what happened to me last year until this very minute.

so, how did 2013 treat me?
the answer is:
A W E S O M E

it is safe to argue that 2013 meant to be my most favorite year. A year dominates with so much craziness, out-of-control breakdowns, but the highlight..it really was an exhausting journey to be a  much better person. I guess as I get older, I am starting to see New Year as a reflection, resolution and reinvention process. However, the fact which made 2013 significantly different from previous years is I finally have someone in bed to discuss what we have been achieved together and what our next target for the next year.

oh yes baby, 2013 was the year I got married to my fabulous husband. The only reason of my survival from the insane wedding drama. Trust me, the wedding prep with a divorced-parents resume is beyond horrible, indeed mine was unbearable. When most brides will usually concerned about food, dress, decoration or a smooth Ijab-Qabul, me and my family could only think how to ease the tension between Mama and Bunda, how to talk and act carefully without iniating the emotion. In fact, there was no family picture which include the whole family members, you could see all the fake smiles in our family portrait. *LOL*

honestly speaking, I feel that my wedding was not that memorable. BUT...
I love the decoration for our reception night though (we did the decor by ourselves, we were given 14 hours to decor the venue), I love the food despite the fact that Clarion Hotel cheated us in many ways, I love my dress and make-up though I hate the price, I love RAA as our photographer team and Primero as our video documentation. Importantly, I love how my husband did his Ijab-Qabul, very loud yet fueled up with determination !

AHA, it did memorable in its own way, Nis :)

enough about the wedding onto the marriage life.
long way back then, I was not a fan of marriage. I always thought, I won't be married before 30's, marriage is time-consuming hence I better had a very great single life before tied down, marriage sucks all the fun in life, marriage took away your loved ones' time and all other negative ideas.

thank God those ideas didn't stuck long, and thank you for proving it all wrong, hubby !
our marriage is far from perfect and the hell with being perfect.
our aim is to love each other imperfections instead, that way.. we develop more respects for one another. Given how much time and things we spent together before our marriage, things between us surprisingly do not change drastically. We are still going through the same routines, except nowadays, additional tasks are added to the routine, i.e. to serve each other needs in bedroom and in the kitchen.

in my 7 months of marriage life, I am happy.. very deliciously happy. As long as I'm with him, I think I'm capable of almost everything. We are so imperfect yet we both sincerely think that we are right for each other. Quite cheesy and non-sense but that's what love should be.

so, what are our target in 2014?
- Our main priority is to have babies, of course. 
- Prosperous businesses so we create more jobs to those in need
- Omra journey
- More locally and internationally traveling

as always, please send us your kind wishes and luck.