someone for everyone

There's a famous saying: "a successful marriage life requires falling in love many times, always with the same person". Alhamdulillah.. I think it happens to my marriage life.

Yes, it is too early to call mine as the successful one. However, I am so happy, proud and grateful because me and my husband have succeed getting through our first year of marriage. In fact, we love, care and respect each other more than before. It really wasn't an easy year with our businesses slowing down, the never-ending family issues, hence accelerated the tension between us. I gotta give most credits to my husband for his incredible level of patience and understanding.

Nowadays, everytime I wake up, I will look at his sleeping face and I can feel that I am falling in love more and more with him. Thank you for always trying to bring out the best of me. You are unbelievable, even my parents and my family couldn't stand me the way you do. Subhanallah.. Alhamdulillah Ya Allah for marrying me with the right person.

I can't believe I am actually gonna say this but for those who still single, please do get married as soon as possible. Don't wait for the right one, as there is no such thing as the one. Look for someone who is willing to make things right and work out for both of you, look for someone who loves and accepts you unconditionally. Good-looking, romantic, wealth, sexy are just the added bonus however don't let those overshadow your judgement. Don't mess someone's relationship, karma does exist to bite your ass. Trust me, there is someone for everyone :)

With a baby which will due in December this year, I really am the happiest wife!!

prejudice is a crime. do not judge !

I believe that as an ordinary human being, we are all prejudiced to some level. Myself for example, there are times when I judge people from their  their weight, their make-up, their taste in fashion etc. Although I don't normally let out the thoughts still.. I shouldn't even judge them in the first place ! As the victim of bad judgements, I should not let other people experience the same pain.

Shame on you, Nisa !!



Prejudice is a serious crime because someone may eventually suffer psychologically / psychically because of our accusation. Being human should not be our excuses to believe that we are better than someone else, even if you think you are that great.. just keep the shallow thoughts to yourself !

The old proverb of  'never judge a book from its cover' is undeniably true. Yes.. it is always more convenient for me to judge someone / everything from the outside. BUT.. I want to reward myself by spending some time to get to know better, rather than jumping into wrong conclusion. 2014 should be the year of training myself on how to build good assumptions :)



Surat Yunus (10) Ayat 36:
And most of them follow not except assumption. Indeed, assumption avails not against the truth at all. Indeed, Allah is Knowing of what they do.